Πέμπτη, Απριλίου 02, 2015

Why should we give millennials a chance?

Yeah, actually, why? That's what I asked myself this morning after reading the news over a hot cup of coffee.
This generation does not stand up for anything. Even if there's a group of them that does stand up, their voice is so weak – it's more like a whisper – so unlike to be heard, unless you pay attention and really listen to it. The majority of generation Y just does not give a damn about anything but social media, fashion, television, relationships, and boyband breakups. Of course, as some of you might say, that's a result of how you've been raised- you weren't born ignorant- you grew up to be one. This statement is partly true. Unless your family has tought you respect and manners, nobody should really expect these virtues from you. Once you, the ignorant millennial kid, will interact with other people and show your lack of kindness and integrity, remember that they do not know your background, and most likely won't tolerate your attitude.

I think Gen Ys are worse than the Gen Xs. Gen Ys are hypocrites. They put their hipster mask on and act like world peace activists, openminded people with strong personalities and much more spiritually evolved individuals than their ancestors. However, when the right time comes, that mask is put down and they show their real self which is no other than a racist, insecure and complex human being who just wants to be left alone while enjoying his fancy Starbucks coffee and taking pictures of it so that he puts it on Instagram minutes later. They don't let reality in, they're too fragile to look around and realize what's going on because that will require action and they just do not want to care. They're just fine inside their cynical bubble.

To be completely honest here, I'm a cynic too. A huge one actually. “Scratch any kind of cynic and you will find a disappointed idealist”, George Carlin said once. So, how can you not possibly be a cynic in such a harsh world? There's a certain picture in your mind of how the world should really be and when you compare that picture with reality the least you can get is disappointed. There's no cure for that, i'm highly convinced that i'm gonna be let down by humanity my whole life, but unlike the rest of you i'll give it a shot, i'll try to make a difference where I can and the way I can. What helps a cynic do that, try make a difference, what helped me specifically do that, was having people around me that just don't give up. They do not give up on me, they do not give up on their dreams, they do not give up on that picture I told you about few lines ago. In my life, Tim is one of them. I've never seen him lose his spirit over a handful of setbacks and pitfalls. Another thing I love about him is that he doesn't count his words, if he feels something is wrong he states it out. You'd be surprised of how many times he scolded me because, due to my cynical nature, I crossed some lines. If we were comic heroes I'd most definitely be the villain while Tim would be the soft-hearted hero. And you know what happens to villains right? Eventually, they come around or end up dead. Well, there's a third option, where you have sequels but that fact doesn't really help me come across my point at the moment!

Anyway, you have to think about that. If you call someone an ignorant, you just called him a name, you didn't solve anything. What it takes to beat a bad attitude that is for someone to genuinely care. Tim cares. His passion for humanity restoration can be contagious even to people like me. Hopefully, everyone has a Tim in his life. Let's just stop our generation's reputation, the so called “why bother” generation.


Is it hard? Not if you have the right attitudes.
It's having the right attitudes that's hard.
Roert M. Pirsig


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